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page 51 Some Advice for Well-Endowed Men - Part 1- Small-endowed men often believe they are the only ones whose penis gives them problems. They think that life is a free ride for those who are well equipped. They don't understand what very well-endowed men have to go through. The problems you are facing Emotional problems Only respected as sex object Feeling "used" Penetration problems Penis too long Penis too thick 1. Emotional problems It sounds nice to be considered a sex object by women but it isn't. Women come and take you as if you are apiece of meat. You feel "used" because they have their orgasm and then they leave you as if you are filth. Theyconsider it your job to give satisfaction to them. You often feel obligated to sleep with women you don't even want to have sex with. Everyday you are bothered by some girl that wants it from you. Others think just because they are pretty that they are the ones that deserve your penis, while you might be looking for a nice girl rather than for a pretty bitch with an attitude. Consequently you are bitter because no one seems to give you any other respect than for your penis. In fact, you are sick and tired of people staring at your bulge instead of looking in your eyes. You dream of just laying back and enjoying some oral sex without having to penetrate the girl. But you know you can't, because she doesn't allow you to lay back, you have to perform. Solution To begin with, stop just giving yourself away for nothing. It is not because women think that men always want sex, that you should be ready for them when they want you. Let them wait and hunker. Have sex when you want it, not when some lusty girl needs it. Preserve your sexual energy for those girls that you think deserve it or you will burn out faster than you think. On the other hand, if your problem is rather the opposite, meaning that you want to have more sexual encounters with different partners, then do it. Don't deny yourself the pleasures of the world, feeling constraint by some possessive girl that is pretending to be in love with you while she is only in love with your penis. Don't waist your life missing out on the fun. If you are not in love and you didn't make a commitment, you don't owe her your sex life. You were given a big penis so carry it with pride and enjoy sex when you want. 2. Penetration problems Even if you are not bothered by any of this, your sex life might still not be what you want it to be. There you are, you found out that you have a grade "A" penis (see page 40, the Penis Size Preference Chart) but you still seem to have problems with good sex. I am not talking about "getting laid" but about problems during the actual sex act. You were given this size to pleasure women, but now you still have to learn how to use it optimally. You probably get frustrated often because of penetration problems. Youthink your penis is either too long or too wide, or both. Penetration problems because you think your penis is too long Especially men with big length (over 8") complain that they often hurt their girls. Many women don't like penetration by long penises because each time their uterus seems to get a beating. The problem is not really your length (unless you are over 9"). It is mostly a matter of timing and technique.  Timing please I am not talking about time of the month, although that can also play a role in a woman's capability to accept a large penis inside. I am talking about timing during the actual sexact itself. Remember the process of vaginal tenting? (see page 18 Stimulation from penis length.) I will recap some things here because this is very important for you. When you and your girl are prepared to have sex, even if she is wet, she is usually not ready yet to be penetrated deeply. Although the vagina walls are very stretchable, they need to "warm up" first and to expand by itself. In the beginning of the excitement, her vagina is only slowly starting to increase in size. In the back, her cervix (the entrance to the uterus) is still resting at about three-four inches from the vagina opening. Often you can feel it by reaching inside with a finger. It feels like a round protruding knob at the end of her vagina. Only after additional excitement, she will get to a point where here uterus retracts deeper inside the abdominal cavity, creating extra space where there wasn't any before. This is called tenting or ballooning of the vagina. How do you know she is at that stage? Well, it is your job to make sure she is getting thenecessary arousal first. Whether you use your mouth, your fingers or the first few inches of your penis or anything you want, you have to stimulate her enough before going for thebig banging. One or two clitoral orgasms wouldn't hurt either. Once she is in that expanded stage, you can feel with your fingers that her vagina walls are wider apart and somewhat harder. Now you can penetrate her with your full length, but start gently. After a short while, you will feel that her vagina is at maximum capacity and only then should you start thrusting heavily. Not all men with big penises have strong self-confidence when it comes to interacting with women. If you have a problem to approach women, then you could learn how to get over it forever. (I read an excellent book about low self-esteem and fear of rejection that will teach you how to do this.)  Or, as a temporary solution, you could get some human pheromone releasers like Attract-RX, which are a much more effective way to attract women than the traditional pheromone sprays. Next: Advice for well-endowed men, Part 2 50 52

Penis Enlargement Opinion Defeating Fear of Rejection If penis size is not a big issue to you Links  -  Table of Contents  -  List of Comments  -  Terms and Conditions Copyright © 2002–2006 PenisSizeDebate.com   page 52 Some Advice for Well-Endowed Men - Part 2 - Technique Although the vagina is ready for penetration now and the uterus is pulled back, you could still be causing pain by hitting the cervix with your long penis. The most important thing for you to give her pleasure instead of pain is to have a hard erection. When you have a weak erection, you can't control the angle of penetration. All your penis will do is slide in and out like a soft sausage and hit the cervix upon each stroke. A hard erection allows you to direct your penetration to those places that feel good for her. The best is to enter in an upward angle so that the tip and the upper part of your penis slide over the upper wall of her vagina. The head of your penis skims the cervix without striking it and ends up next to it in the concave part of the back of the vagina. This technique doesn't just spare her from the frontal banging of the uterus but increases her stimulation tenfold by causing friction and pressure at those places that are the most sensitive to her. Following this method, many women will achieve a very intensive vaginal or uterine orgasm. Especially the parts in the back of the vagina next to the uterus mouth seem to be very responsive to rhythmical thumping of the penis and can build up a powerful energy before releasing it into an earthquake-like orgasm. Penetration problems because your penis is too thick If you encounter penetration problems because of a very thick penis then tenting of the vagina is also a major requirement before entering, since it makes the vagina expand a lot in width as well. Depending on the individual woman, this can vary from two to four inches in diameter. The vagina opening usually stays tighter than that, especially if the girl is a bit tense or over excited. Therefore, if you have a very thick penis tell your woman toconcentrate on relaxing her vagina muscles. You should also add plenty of lubrication, unless she is very wet by herself. Don't forget that women are not always as wet as they could or should be. Hormonal changes or emotional distress can have a big influence on it. If because of an unusual large penis head you have a difficult time entering her vagina, then try not to be too erected when inserting your penis. Easier said than done of course if you are excited, but at least squeeze some blood away from the head. What if your penis is extremely big? Girls often say they prefer girth to length but if your penis measures ten inches or more in circumference, you know life is tough. You are searching the Internet for help but all you find is a bunch of men complaining that their penises are too small. Nobody gives a damn about yourproblems. Nobody cares that every day you become more depressed because you haven't lost your virginity yet, since none of the girls so far has been able to take your size. Hell, you would even be happy with a simple blowjob but you haven't found a girl that can take your knob in her mouth. The one that tried had to go to the hospital to fix her dislocated jaw. Nobody cares that all you can get from a girl is a hand job and not even a good one, because both her hands together hardly reach around your shaft. Even masturbating yourself is a labor for you. Keeping an erection for too long makes you dizzy. Women love watching your penis but only because you are a freak show to them. You would do everything you can to shrinkyour penis, even if it would require taking female hormone pills that grow you bitch-tits, but you know there is nothing you can do. You hate walking around the town because there is no way you can hide your ridiculously big bulge. You have gone swimming only once in your adult life, vowing never to return after you scared those screaming people out of the pool. But when you think back about it, you realize it is better that way. It takes you too long putting on those swimming trunks anyway, obligated to reinforce them with straps around your waist so that the weight of your penis doesn't pull them down. No,nature hasn't been easy on you, and you could do without all the penis size talks. Next: Some Advice for men with a small penis 51 53 Penis Enlargement Opinion Defeating Fear of Rejection If penis size is not a big issue to you Links  -  Table of Contents  -  List of Comments  -  Terms and Conditions Copyright © 2002–2006 PenisSizeDebate.com